Navigating Goodbyes and Settling In at the Start of a New School Year

The beginning of a new school year is an exciting time, but it can also be a challenge. For young children, the moment you say goodbye can feel big and overwhelming. It's important to remember that this feeling is a sign of a strong, loving bond between you and your child. At Annabel’s, we understand this transition and have created a nurturing environment to help every child feel safe and secure.

Tips for a Smooth Drop-Off

Saying goodbye can be tough for everyone involved, but there are a few things you can do to make it easier.

• Keep it short, confident, and cheerful. A quick, loving goodbye helps children settle faster. When you linger, children often keep watching the door, hoping you'll come back—which can make it harder for them to fully engage in the classroom.

• Trust the process. Avoid coming back for "just one more hug" or peeking in. While it's tempting, this can make the separation more difficult.

• Let your child know you trust their teachers. Reassure your child that you know they'll be safe and happy at school. This builds confidence in both your child and their educators.

• Consider a temporary change. If goodbyes are particularly tough, think about having another trusted adult handle drop-off for a few days. Sometimes, a change in routine can help.

Stories to Help With Separation

Reading books about saying goodbye can be a great way to help children process their feelings and prepare for the school day. Here are a few favorites that our teachers recommend:

• "Owl Babies" by Martin Waddell. This gentle story about baby owls missing their mom is perfect for easing separation anxiety.

• "The Kissing Hand" by Audrey Penn. This is a beautiful book that offers a simple, reassuring way to say goodbye and provide comfort to children with separation anxiety.

• "The Invisible String" by Patrice Karst. A wonderful, comforting story that teaches children they are always connected to their loved ones by an invisible string of love, no matter where they are.

• "The Pigeon Has to Go to School!" by Mo Willems. This is a fun and silly book that can help lighten the mood around saying goodbye.

By using these strategies and resources, you can help make the transition into the new school year a positive experience for your child. Remember, a little preparation and a lot of love can go a long way.